Welcome to Authentic Gay Life Coaching
As a gay man, you deserve to work with a gay coach who understands what it really means to live openly, love fully, and stay true to yourself.
I help gay men gain clarity about their direction
and confidence in their decisions.
As gay men, we face unique opportunities and challenges that the world doesn't always understand, but it's different when you work with a gay man who just gets it. My gay clients often tell me they were looking for a gay coach who could understand their experiences so they can focus on what really matters.
I'm out, I'm proud, and I'm here to help you
create an Authentic Gay Life you're proud of!
Hello, I'm Robert
Proudly helping gay men live with confidence, clarity and contentment.
I've lived through the changing landscape of gay life, navigating identity, career, relationships, and personal growth at different life stages. I bring the sum total of those experiences to our work together, which means you get real understanding and practical guidance that works.
As a fully accredited coach, I help professional gay men understand their personality patterns, trust themselves to make choices that feel right, and build a life that's authentic, fulfilling, and unapologetically theirs.
I'm a directive coach who shares what I see and what I've learned from working with hundreds of clients. This is whole-person coaching that combines personal and professional coaching because life and work aren't separate – they're interconnected parts of who you are.
The work is real, sometimes challenging, and profoundly effective. My clients often say they wish they'd worked with me years earlier.
Robert Hutchinson PCC, FRSA
Enneagram Accredited Professional
Professional Certified Coach
In London and Worldwide
Co-Founder, The Gay Happiness Project
You're successful by many measures, but something still feels off.
There's a gap between where you are and where you want to be.
You find yourself:
Repeating patterns that don't benefit you – in your career, relationships, or how you present yourself.
Second-guessing major decisions about your career direction, wondering if you're on the right path.
Masking, covering or self-censoring - hiding aspects of who you really are, even in spaces that should feel safe.
Stuck between different versions of yourself, not quite sure which one is really you or what's holding you back.
The Authentic Gay Life Pathway
Phase 1:
Understand Your Patterns
We identify the unconscious strategies that are running your life – the automatic reactions, the familiar loops, the ways you've learned to navigate the world that might not benefit you anymore.
You can be completely yourself throughout this process, with no need for performing or explaining. You'll gain precise insights into what drives your decisions, where you're getting stuck, and why patterns keep repeating.
Phase 2:
Create New Habits
Once you see your patterns clearly, you can interrupt them. It might mean changing how you respond to workplace dynamics, communicating differently in relationships, or breaking loops you've been caught in for years.
We'll work on this together. I'll give you practical guidance on what to do differently, tailored to how you operate. The changes happen because you take action to create new habits.
Step 3:
Build Your Authentic Gay Life
With your patterns mapped, you’re in an ideal position to start making real changes – in your career, your relationships, and the key decisions that shape your life.
You will have the clarity and confidence to make decisions based on what will actually work for you and your operating system, not what works for someone else. The changes will be tailored to how you're wired – so you will know they're right.
What Clients Say
I was looking for a gay coach who would have an affinity with me as a gay man. Be prepared to be challenged and think broadly, Robert helped me look at all aspects of my life and I am ‘richer’ as a result.
Richard Whale
I had been thinking about working with a coach for a while and was very specific about what I wanted - someone who both personally and professionally, I could relate to as a gay man. What I've learnt has impacted me in a big way, and has been instrumental in developing my new business.
John Ashton
From first meeting Robert to now, I have transformed to a happier, more confident and assured person. The changes have been life-changing for me both in my work and personal life. I got great value out of each and every session and have nuggets of gold from each session that I take with me everywhere.
Rob Price
Have any questions about Authentic Gay Life coaching?
Send me a message and I'll get back to you within 24 hours.
Whether you're looking for a gay coach in London or online coaching, I'm happy to answer any questions about how Authentic Gay Life coaching could help you create the changes you're looking for.